Let me make a few statements, your call, your point of view is completely justified. Your “Free Will” shall lead you to your “Destiny” and “Destiny” can be changed with your “Free Will”, “Destiny” is capricious, does it sound logical? I will be able to understand that, if the statement makes you feel like wayfarer. I guess you may agree, that we have made ourselves acclimatized to get used to, with the circumstances or let’s put it again, we have get accustomed to compromise, with the small little talk. To bring it to surface, we had when we were young, we were true to ourselves. Now, we let the small talk have the careened walk, which would not interrupt the selfish self. The small talk has disappeared in between the claxon all around us. What is this got to do with “Free Will”?
Let’s take an example: you are sitting in a restaurant, the food was ordered. The “Daal” was not that great, you yelled at the waiter, that was the first thing you did. He went in changed in the dish brought it back to you. Now it was cold, so you yelled back and poor guy rushed in, you derisive him, for no fault of his. He goes back, while coming from the kitchen and your table, he simply spits in it!!! Your enjoy the meal, completely satisfied with what you have got. Would you have eaten, it if you would know actually, what happened between the kitchen and your table. Let’s move ahead, the drinks were high on you, after splendid dinner you start driving carelessly, cops pull you back. They could smell the liquor, you had a few arguments, the cops take you the police station. You yell out big names, curse the whole system. Somehow you manage to get out of the station, start driving back again, a open man hole appears, not realizing, you take your car over it. Now the car is damaged, the tyre is stuck. Your curse everything and everybody around it. Now you blame the whole issue as if errata written by god, called destiny. Is it your destiny? Didn’t you have alternative solutions right from the starting point to have a completely peaceful, pleasant night. Think about it?
A few may question, what the waiter did, is that what should be accepted? I would say surely no, but that is not in your hands, one, secondly, he is using a “free will” in a similar fashion as you did. To spoil to the whole issue, he is building his own destiny, which would pay back, or if you have seen it, act as a bank and pay off his cheque, then and there(get him fired). Here also people would not do anything, cause first, it is not my business, secondly it is not my serving(forget it). But if it happened to you, you want the whole wide world, to say how much correct you are. Another question I drive slow and safe, still it had to be with me. Well two things, happen when people get into trouble they try to pull in whatever they get. The only way is to safeguard yourself, but in depth you would understand that, you did have the free will. How? Most of the times the soft little talk we avoid helps us to avoid hapless acts, avoiding to become hapless victims. If we would have just heard it.