Acrimonious positivity…..

Thank you for your mails, comments, suggestions and appreciation, I had complains or suggestions or whatever you call it, that I generally do not write something positive. I guess I do, but the bitter part of being positive. I propose to do it again with a slight change, it is positive from a different prospective. Aesthetic allure of human to be positive, their altruistic behavior to share positivity with the abstruse negativity within, allow me to put it across this way. We read newspapers likely the first “to do things” in the morning, what does it say “so many people killed”, “adulterous activities”, “robbery”, “cozenage” this is how we start off. We seek to be positive, how is that? It has not happened in our neighborhood. Rush to the office the first greeting are “Did you read that news so sad” the person to start off also has his final word “we should be more careful, who can stop such an act, the government is responsible for this, etc. etc. etc.”

The sacrilegious sayings are said by the people trying to be sacrosanct, one of the many ironies of life, people subjugate in a life span. The interesting part is how does it affect without the clue, that it is affecting, it is so deep within us hidden in the darkest caves. I recall a movie starring Shah Rukh Khan, Priety Zinta called “Dil se…” out of mere curiosity I had asked people as to why didn’t like the movie, there obviously some astonishing comments, but maximum could gist out on because “the hero dies in the end” that is the whole point. They loved the dance sequence in the movie on the running train first in it’s own way, star caste, stuff people could just talk about but did not like it cause the hero dies.

This is just one of the examples, there are numerous other, may be movies, people, like for everything there is a whim, that it has to end in a positive whim only. Is there something wrong about it, no not at all, well we should all think to be positive, but the lip service people do is stranger than the fiction. Ok so what is the whole point about all this? To be positivist is not only to behave cocksure and brag about being positive. You don’t only need to say it, but to believe it. Don’t prove to the world, prove it to yourself.

Fear death, but living life right now to the fullest is being positive, others do and have done wrong to you, forgive them, remember don’t forget, forgiving them and moving ahead is being positive. People try to snatch your position, possessions, belongings. Trying to cling on them, trying to save them, getting in secured about everything is not even close to being positive, but aiming that I would have more than what people can take away from me is being positive. Thrown stones in water, spoken words and life lived cannot turn back, don’t try it, it is not how the nature is, it is not in your power. What you have is living right now to best of ability to live.

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