I just wanted to talk…….

Some random thoughts, that have been filling my head as the manna from the heaven, so I thought why not to share it. Somebody asked the God why life is so short? The God replied get married! The poor fellow asked God will that add years to my life??? God replied “No it would make you feel living each day since ages” this at times happens to be the grux of life, when we had time opportunity and space, we said no later and when everything passed by, we land up saying that “boss I didn’t get a chance to do so many things” one of my friend has decided not to get married (What ? ) that was the same question I really wanted to ask, which eventually I did, but to my surprise it was just too simple reason: because he doest not see happy couples around, he believes that he cannot be happy in a relationship, guess what he actually managed two girl friends broke of with them and does not think of a long committed relationship.(you finding it funny I don’t find it. The depth to which a person can act in to our lives is unimaginable, inseparable, unforeseen).

The point is the world would look the way you look at it, I remember a story when I as small there was this kid who walked down the road on a mountain to place where he could get eco, the boy out of his inquisitiveness shouted “somebody there” the reply came the same then he shouted “what is your name” the reply again the same the boy said “you are rude” the reply came to his surprise the same, he rushed to his mother and said “mom that is place is full of rude people”, his mom could understand the whole thing as all moms do for their children, she asked her son to go back and say that “you are my friend” “and I love you” the young boy confused with himself did as told by her mom, obviously the reply as to what he shouted, he came back running to his mom and said they said they love me. ( Simple but how true, love somebody and you will be loved, hate somebody and it would follow you).

I don’t deny it is easy to let go the negativity around you, cause the news paper you read, the news channels, the late night news editions, the neighborhood gossips are more interesting then somebody who made a new mark for the up gradation of human life relating to degrading life standards. No I am not against of any televisions, news channels but the point is more importance is given to criminal acts on the first page as compared to some new inventions in science, it is wired I don’t say that we want negativity but I am trying to say is that we are not taking efforts also to avoid it, the first 30 minutes as we get is are the most important, precious time for the day cause what we start with we carry for the whole(ok you clearly getting doubts try this, start of a day while reading the book on your life hero, or ideal or motivation thoughts, or just an early walk in the garden enjoying the beauty of the nature and experience the day filled with energy, motivated, ready for something great expecting something great, on the other hand try…..try to get up late, read some shabby news, listen to hard rock and you can see the difference by the end of the day).

The point is not only that we know what is to be done, the point is that we perform to make that it is to be done, don’t try it, live it, cause life is too short to repent.

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I still cant do it...

Look out of the window and there you see is beautiful weather(not always but today I can), you can go out and even dance in the rain, but you still can't do it.........No it is not about somebody would say something, it is about that.........that one perticular feeling that is missing, that feeling that we all had in our childhood but now something is lost,

The pleasing breeze that comes from the window and the daylight turns into late evening, the rain starts, but instead of welcoming the rain drops, we close down the window with the breeze......there are so many things we stop. Exactly we just stop, when we try to recall no reason to say as in why did we stop, I guess I have an answer !!!(yeah I can think at times) it is all about the feeling that we left behind while growing up.

Fine I would give you my own example, I wanted to write I knew I had so much happening and so much to share but I did'nt and I myself was unable to understand the depth of losing out on small, tiny, little things....untill I started losing my head out, the reason being nothing(No I am not sick, maniac or something) it is that I know that I am missing out something in life, I am not very clear of what all I am missing out, but yes I accept that I have lost something that I had when I a small little spoilt brat in the house.........they always say that grass is always greener on the other end and it is so much true ? why simple when I was a child I always thought it is so cool when you grow....now when you are grown up you think wow it was so cool when you were young I mean really really young (What a confused soul)'.

No but trust me it is so funny, we have made our lifes so jam packed(I wish it was a fruit jam though, anyways jokes apart) that we have stopped laughing, not even a cute smile(I know you are smiling now "GOOD") even talking we talk on the mobile phone so much...but all business and when it comes to home we have hardly to even chit chat, Amazing!!! (Then we say life sucks pardon my language) I will share a secret but dont tell this to anyone even I have started hearing this "You don't talk anymore, you are quiet, you dont even laugh on a funny thing in the movie" so it is ok we all are or were or will be passing through this phase. The point is, like everybodys says for today's generation "Now, Fast, Easy" how much now, fast or easily we can let this phase go and come back to life we actually wanted, a happy life.

And after all this I have written and you have read, I guess we can change the title to I still can do it....

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Fact of love life

 

            Tera mera yeh nata kyu tuta

Tera mera yeh Pyaar kyu rutha

Aadhi baatein, aadhuri raatien reh gayi tere bina

 

Tere bina sehna na sakunga

Tere bina Jee na sakunga

 

This is a lovely song from the movie Dil kabadi called Ehsaan I am sure a lot of you must have heard it, this songs is for the all people who have lost in love and still question why, how, when, how can I forget it. I tell you something we need to forget it no matter what happens how much you are into it or you were into it, cause at the end of the day the other person really moves ahead in life and by the time you realize it, that you should give it up it is already too late, too late to justify yourself and your wait, your love and then when you know you have lost it, you cannot accept it, why, cause it is human nature not to accept your own defeat consoling sessions from friends and hanging out with friends is a momentary drug given for the momentary relief for the pain.

 

 

So you think I am here to give you nasty ideas of getting over your past mistakes and ruined relationships, I am so glad to say no, I am not cause I am no one honestly I am no one in any others persons life, cause your happiness is yours at the end of the day and your defeat it only yours, the gesture is to accept it that yes I am defeated not that you should feel low, guilty and frustrated about it, which I know you cant help cause you feel that ways, but the point is that you let it go, now that is the most difficult part in life.

 

What do you think it is so easy to forget it, is it some kind of data on the disk, that a click and here it is deleted, I know you must be thinking this but my friend the deal is that we should learn to live with it, what ??? now what is this, I know you must be thinking this, but listen to this, when ever you go to a hospital there is a typical smell in the hospital when you enter, agree now after 5-7 mins have passed you still in the same hospital but you don’t smell the smell, try it out observe it, you wont smell it again until you move out of the hospital and come back again.

 

So is the case with ruined relationships until you stop thinking about it, stop giving your utmost attention, stop giving it importance, stop asking your friends for the latest updates, till that date you will never be able to get over it, until and unless you are in a mood of self destruction, that is another way people have come out with, Yes! Amazed but true when you cannot destroy the world around you (which the case 99 % times) you start destroying yourself with as many possibilities you can think about.

 

See cause you have hurt somebody does not mean that world will not hurt you, first thing and the second one if you are hurt trust me there is something better coming up, cause till  then all you are doing is learning to ride a bi cycle, you fall, get hurt, get bruised, but if you don’t get up and start riding again you would never learn to ride the by cycle and talk with the winds, also remember it is ok to know what went wrong that you fell, but understand this if you would only think what went wrong, it wont help cause a relationship is made up with two individuals and their individuality so if it has happened like this, it might not happen for the second case but might be something new, so try to stick to the short comings accept and live life like nobody has ever lived and love like there is no tomorrow.

 

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Why

Why?

 

Why do parents love their children, why there is why behind love, why, behind a good deed for some one else, why the anticipation that something has to be done in return of something, the why factor that works out the simplest solutions to ones problems in life and at the other end makes life a living hell, lands in self pity immoral stage of morality cause all you could not answer is that why.

 

Why is love sacred after marriage and curse before, why a 7 year old boy had to perform the rituals on his own dad’s dead body cause they were rituals, why we stand to our ego so much that you might win the argument but break the relations or at least an irreparable scar for the whole life, why waiting for the time when the time does not even intend to wait for anything and anybody  The why has an end less list as to answers we have, the point is why do we even try to answer this why is it psychological, is it immaterial, is it cause he have asked to? or deeper somewhere with our soul.

 

I cant myself answer all these questions but I try to at times, then I re collect some wired answers I had heard, why do parents love children cause when they grow old their children will love them, it is their responsibility, so save themselves from guilt of not performing the duties towards their parents and so why them. What about the parents who have thrown their children away when they were born and never bothered to look back and then what about the children who are parasites to their parents when growing up and then don’t even bother to think about them when they are old and try to give maintenance to their parents, that is as much as the cost their parents paid for their diapers when they were young.

 

Why is love called immortal when the practicality of life such as status, money, tragedy to physical well being, obsession is just so mortal. Why to expect is justified why is giving not justified without expecting anything in return. Why people with no integrity, no self conscious can live their lives as peacefully as some one who never compromised on their principles, does that make a difference to when look themselves in the mirror or a remedy the people have found out who tend to live to up their principles the remedy being the self conscious.

 

I had heard, there are three sides to a thing your side, the other side and the right side, irrespective of the right side why we run for either sides which have no significance after the discussion is over. The question is not why do we ask so many questions in life the point is when even we know the answer to this question do we act over it? Do we accept it? Do we go with the conscious or kill it.

 

If money could buy happiness why are the rich not happy, so you think that having an obsession and achieving that obsession is going to make you happy(I don’t think so cause human is greedy) think about it again.

 

The reason to write this is not create a panic not to bring in some kind of moral, social, ethical awakening cause it either exist or it does not. Not transfer your attention that does not exist it is not important the reason is there is conscious and there is sub conscious you can take care, run away, suppress or dis approve of your conscious what about your sub conscious can you challenge that, can you even think to dominate that, it is just not into your hands it is as impossible you trying to count the number of times you blink your eye lashes and all the more control the number of times you wink,

The reason is immaterial cause what is apple for me is apple for you, but what is fragrance to me might be smell to someone else, all the more it is not important to know all the answer to these questions, it does not matter I repeat it does not matter, what matters is are you aware of the questions. Love, affection, happiness, anger, frustration, being low are just feelings that cannot be expressed with the in capabilities of words in any language, they are far more than aggressive to the limitations of words, do we accept that there such things called feelings.

 

It is not important to what we feel after reading this, the point is do we feel after reading this, it is not important to justify yourself to others, can you justify your own self cause everything is mortal and so is why, life cannot be life cause you have answered all the why’s but when you know the importance of them in life.

 

Please feel free to criticize, comment, appreciate this might help you and me to understand the reason why.

 

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